Fuck's sake- You know that is the most dramatic thing I have heard in my life. If you want something, you take control. That's how it works. You make it happen, you don't just...float around all 'ohh noo poor me I have no say in anything'. Accountability. Responsibility. Duty, my god, man. Life is what you make it, which you should be very well aware of. If you take control, then you have control. That's it.